Last night, dh and I took Greg Popcak’s Exceptional Marriage Quiz. I am not sure how to scale it because I do not know if the 420 score he mentioned was the highest possible, or a high score. If it is the highest, dh and I got a 93.8%. Not bad. I am quite happy because we have come a long, long way.
The quiz is neat though (if not a bit uncomfortable) because right there and then it shows you doable ways you could improve your marriage right away.
There was one question I thought was so telling of marriage break ups of my generation (X). Love is either there or it isn’t. Good relationships shouldn’t ever feel like work. I know way too many people who cheated or left their spouses because “I just don’t feel the same way about him anymore.”