{"id":2092,"date":"2008-06-05T09:26:28","date_gmt":"2008-06-05T14:26:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/?p=2092"},"modified":"2008-06-05T09:26:28","modified_gmt":"2008-06-05T14:26:28","slug":"quote-of-the-da","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/2008\/06\/quote-of-the-da\/","title":{"rendered":"Quote of the Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Under no circumstances should you ever put yourself in the position of giving or denying your spouse permission to go after something he or she wants, be it a thing, a personal goal, a certain amount of time or attention, or an emotional investment on your part. Negotiating the what (instead of the how and when) in marriage changes you from a partner into a parent, and it reduces your spouse from an adult to a child. Inevitably, this dynamic creates the kind of resentment that, if allowed to go unchecked, causes divorce.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>~Excerpt from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Help-These-People-Driving-Nuts\/dp\/0829415580\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;s=books&#038;qid=1212672869&#038;sr=8-1\"><i>God Help Me, These People are Driving Me Nuts<\/i><\/a>  by  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.exceptionalmarriages.com\/about.htm\">Dr. Greg Popcak<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Under no circumstances should you ever put yourself in the position of giving or denying your spouse permission to go after something he or she wants, be it a thing, a personal goal, a certain amount of time or attention, or an emotional investment on your part. Negotiating the what (instead of the how and&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/2008\/06\/quote-of-the-da\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Quote of the Day<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2092","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-parenting-and-family-life","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2092","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2092"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2092\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2092"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2092"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2092"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}