{"id":850,"date":"2003-10-20T17:06:46","date_gmt":"2003-10-20T22:06:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/?p=850"},"modified":"2003-10-20T17:06:46","modified_gmt":"2003-10-20T22:06:46","slug":"what-is-ap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/2003\/10\/what-is-ap\/","title":{"rendered":"What is AP?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;asks Elinor, in our comments box below.<br \/>\nThe short answer: &#8220;AP&#8221; stands for &#8220;attachment parenting.&#8221;<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Pansy and Gorbulas\" src=\"http:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/archives\/Dani and Matthew.jpg\" width=\"290\" height=\"296\" border=\"0\" \/><br \/>\n<i>Pansy and Gorbulas<\/i><br \/>\nAnd the long answer:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.askdrsears.com\/html\/10\/t130300.asp\">Attachment parenting <\/a>is an approach to raising infants and young children that places a strong emphasis on responding to a baby&#8217;s needs and fostering a strong, trusting bond between the baby and his parents. Dr. William Sears and his wife Martha (the parents of eight children) are probably AP&#8217;s most famous faces, but I actually started learning about the AP approach through the writing of <a href=\"http:\/\/ccli.org\/breastfeed\/bresfsum.shtml\">Sheila Kippley of the Couple to Couple League.<\/a>  The La Leche League has been advocating this approach for years.  <a href=\"http:\/\/exceptionalmarriages.com\/weblog\/index.asp\">There&#8217;s also some Catholic therapist guy out there with a blog<\/a> who has written <a href=\"http:\/\/www.exceptionalmarriages.com\/book3.htm\">a book <\/a>and other articles that include information on the AP approach, which he aptly describes as &#8220;natural law parenting.&#8221;<br \/>\nThe premise of attachment parenting is that tiny infants need their parents, especially their mothers.  (Yes, it does seem strange that we need a parenting book to tell us this, but these are the crazy times we live in&#8230;.)  It rejects the idea that babies cry to &#8220;manipulate&#8221; their parents.<br \/>\nSome highlights of attachment parenting include breastfeeding &#8220;on demand&#8221; (i.e., feeding the baby when he&#8217;s hungry, not just when you think he should be hungry), holding and cuddling the baby when he cries (instead of leaving him to &#8220;cry it out&#8221;), using a sling or other babywearing gizmo, and sharing sleep.<br \/>\nSt. Bloggers who are interested in the AP approach include <a href=\"http:\/\/fructusventris.stblogs.org\/\">Alicia the midwife,<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/chirp.hoppybird.com\/\">Davey&#8217;s mommy<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/honk.checkercabs.org\/\">daddy<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.souzek.com\/dinka\/\">Dinka<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.directly.blogspot.com\/\">M&#8217;Lynn<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/exceptionalmarriages.com\/weblog\">the Popcaks<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/fonticulusfides.blogspot.com\/\">Sparki<\/a>,and <a href=\"http:\/\/summamamas.blogspot.com\/\">Smockmomma<\/a> (can&#8217;t speak for the other Summas yet.)  (This list was right off the top of my head; apologies in advance to anyone who should be on the list and isn&#8217;t!)<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.motheringwithgrace.com\/\">Mothering with Grace<\/a> is a website for Catholic moms interested in AP.<br \/>\n<b>UPDATE:<\/b>  Add <a href=\"http:\/\/www.revolutionoflove.com\/\">Bobbi<\/a> to the list of AP St Blogger&#8217;s.  She also has <a href=\"http:\/\/www.revolutionoflove.com\/aboutus\/bobbi\/mama\/to_be\/attachment.htm\">a list of AP links.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;asks Elinor, in our comments box below. The short answer: &#8220;AP&#8221; stands for &#8220;attachment parenting.&#8221; Pansy and Gorbulas And the long answer: Attachment parenting is an approach to raising infants and young children that places a strong emphasis on responding to a baby&#8217;s needs and fostering a strong, trusting bond between the baby and his&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/2003\/10\/what-is-ap\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">What is AP?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-850","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-parenting-and-family-life","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/850","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=850"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/850\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=850"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=850"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moss-place.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=850"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}