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1. I'm so bummed -- I thought my new shoes would be comfortable but instead they're killing my feet. Is it the heels or my plantar fascia?

2. Hambet is teaching me to play Lego Star Wars on the Wii. In return, I am giving him piano lessons. It's working out.

3. Hmmmm. Not sure what to say here.

4. Pride and Prejudice and Zombies!
: two hours and $12.95 I'll never get back. The joke simply isn't funny enough to last 317 pages; after a while, it's just tedious (kind of like those Saturday Night Live sketches that get flogged to death.) The Discussion Questions at the end are a hoot, though.

5. Why the Sarah Palin hatred? What unseen psychological -- or spiritual -- forces are driving this? It's so strange.

6. From Jennifer at Conversion Diary: most hysterical lead-in to a rec EVAR. (Fates, please note I said "hysterical", not "funny.")

7. Our parish recently started expanded hours of Adoration. I'm up this afternoon.

http://www.ncregister.com/daily/u2_singer_bonos_ode_to_mary/

HT: Amy

Update on the colic thing

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A few months ago, I was whining about the stress of taking care of family and a colicy newborn. Gabriel is nearly five months old now. He is very happy, he smiles, giggles, and talks all the time, and he loves his siblings. He is thriving well and is pleasantly plump. Note the little sausage legs:

Family Take 2

But he still screams when I try to put him down. Many people told me to ask about acid reflux, and I did. The doctor told me it was gas and to use Mylicon drops. Having gone through colic before, I figured we could last until three months.

Three months have come and gone (he is nearly five moths old now) and while Gabriel no longer has that newborn shell-shockedness about his personality ("Why is it bright? Why am I cold? Why is it noisy? Mommy, where are you? Who are you, you're not my mommy! Where am I?"), a distinct pattern has emerged. While Gabriel loves to nurse, he doesn't like to eat that much. He is always looking to latch on, but when he does, he arches his back and squirms and usually spits up a good portion of what he takes in. And nights, oh man. The past three weeks he wakes up every hour or so and I have to sit in the rocking chair and hold him up on my shoulder. He instantly falls into a deep sleep then, but when hel ies back down, he starts to squirm. For me, dozing in a rocking chair night after night is not very restful. He spends a great deal of time during the day in the sling and/or walking back and forth, back and forth. (If this is disconnected it's because I had to stop about a dozen times to walk him).

On Monday, I called the pediatrician first thing in the morning for an appointment about this acid reflux thing because I.Had.IT. He hasn't outgrown it, and perhaps poor munchkin (er, Mommy) would be much happier sleeping the night with a prescription of some sort of Baby Zantac. For the check-up, Gabriel smiled and cooed and charmed the socks off the nurse and the doctor. The nurse said "this is the most pleasant baby I have ever seen" and the doctor who had been trying to get me to supplement with formula was happy to see how well he is thriving (he didn't even ask me to supplement once) and repeatedly remarked how well he's doing. This baby can't possibly have any issues! When I asked about acid reflux and relayed the symptoms, he said it was gas because he is thriving and developing so well. He told me to use Mylicon. He must have stock in the company.

So here we are. Fussy baby, laundry, dinner. Kids who pretend they didn't know have to do daily chores. I have three quilts I would love to finish...Again, one thing having seven kids has taught me is this too will pass...

From Momlogic.com, Marijuana Mamas: Is pot the new pilates?:

A new wave of reefer madness is sweeping suburbia -- but it's not just teenagers who are lighting up. Middle-aged, middle-class soccer moms are smoking pot ... a lot. These women aren't stoners: they're teachers, lawyers, and, perhaps, even your neighbor who prefers puffing a joint to sipping chardonnay. woman smoking marijuana

"Marijuana is the magic in my life that helps me unwind, stay sane, and have more energy," says Sonia, a 24-year-old mother from Los Angeles. Working full-time as a restaurant manager leaves Sonia feeling stressed out and drained at the end of the day. She smokes once or twice daily to relax. "I have a stressful job, it's something that helps me wind down so I don't take out my frustration on my husband or my child."
Sonia became a mother at the age of 22 and suffered from some depression. She turned to marijuana to help curb the baby blues. A doctor later diagnosed Sonia with anxiety and wrote her a prescription for the herbal remedy. Sonia gets her stash from a medicinal marijuana clinic and takes comfort in knowing the pot she smokes is legal and high quality.

Are you kidding me?

There's a lot of debate over how to talk to kids about using drugs without sounding like a hypocrite, especially if you're the one hitting the bong. Zero-tolerance proponents believe you must support abstinence only. But advocates say a more real-world approach is to discuss drug use in moderation. This method is detailed in a pamphlet called "Safety First: A Reality-Based Approach to Teens and Drugs," which is distributed by the California PTA.

"Abstinence only"? Now adults who do not participate in illegal activities do not live in "the real world". I love how "real" is always code for sin.

"Drug use in moderation". Is that realistic? People usually do or they don't.

In "reality", I pretty much don't care what other people decide to do, but advocating illegal substance abuse is irresponsible. Besides the fact that people behave stupidly under the influence, they run the risk of being put in jail and having their children taken away. I don't care how many upper-middle-class-soccer moms are getting toked, it's not so quaint and trendy a practice if you are poor. It completely ceases to be quaint. You are guaranteed to lose your family.

Also, no one is addressing the health risks. Smoking cigarettes has become the focus of countless PSAs, but we want to legalize a substance with nearly twice the amount of carcinogens?

I wonder, why can't people deal? I don't mean that as criticism; I will be the first to admit motherhood is stressful. But is this because people didn't expect there is a great deal of difficulty involved in rearing children or are we just are so not supportive of parents in general? Probably a bit of both. I also wonder since we have become a culture where people need to be entertained 150% of the time, have we lost our ability to find more wholesome ways to relieve stress.

Or realistically, what can we do?

Via Jill Stanek:

From the LA Times, June 25:

President Obama suggested at a town hall event Wednesday night that one way to shave medical costs is to stop expensive and ultimately futile procedures performed on people who are about to die and don't stand to gain from the extra care.

Read that again. Obama was subtly promoting euthanasia...

In a nationally televised event at the White House, Obama said families need better information so they don't unthinkingly approve "additional tests or additional drugs that the evidence shows is not necessarily going to improve care."

He added: "Maybe you're better off not having the surgery, but taking the painkiller."

Happy Feast of St. Peter

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And Jesus answering, said to him: Blessed art thou, Simon Bar-Jona: because flesh and blood hath not revealed it to thee, but my Father who is in heaven. And I say to thee: That thou art Peter; and upon this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. And I will give to thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven. And whatsoever thou shalt bind upon earth, it shall be bound also in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose upon earth, it shall be loosed also in heaven.

~Mattew 16:17-19
Douay-Rheims Bible

Nabbed!

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Rosey Posey thought she could get away with it. My husband keeps a few fun things in the freezer for times when I'm hungry...(and watches me eat them but doesn't join me because they are "fattening"). Things like these frozen chicken nuggets. Of course with a house full, you have to sneak these, or eat them late. Rosey Posey tried, but Berylla can sense treats a mile away:

Berylla: Whatcha doin'? Eating chicken?

Rosey Posey:Um...no. The bag is empty and I'm just um...throwing it away.

Moves to the garbage can and holds it over.

Berylla watches intently.

Berylla: Go ahead. Throw it out.

Rosey Posey, defeated: Oh, never mind.

It's easy to stay thin in a house with many siblings.

Lard is healthy?

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Seriously?

This shouldn't surprise me. But how do you bake with lard in stuff like cookies?

"Toldja so!" rant from Erik in 3... 2... 1...

Fulfillment does not lie in comfort, ease, and following one's inclinations, but precisely in allowing demands to be made upon you, in taking the harder path. Everything else turns out somehow boring, anyway. Only the person who recognizes an ideal he must satisfy, who takes on real responsibility, will find fulfillment. It is not in taking, not on the path of comfort, that we become right, but only in giving.


Pope Benedict XVI

HT Julie

Happy Birthday to dylan

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Lileks (emphasis mine; RTWT):

....it must be funny, because David is funny and hip. Right? Or maybe not; maybe he’s actually a brackish, hermetically-souled guy who’s spend the last twenty years going from table to table with a giant wooden grinder, asking anyone if they want some fresh-ground scorn with that. Say when. Or maybe he’s about as edgy as a soccer ball, and exists only to remind people they were Edgy once, and hence must be ever-blessed with the gift of Wryness and Irony. With those shields we can never grow old, you know. We’ll always be as sharp and perceptive as we were when we were sitting on a cast-off sofa in college, working through a midweek buzz, happily fell@ted by the preconceptions the TV so charitably provided....

What’s amusing is how unamusing he is in the clip. How sour he seems.... Letterman is empty; he’s inert; he stands for nothing except disdain for people foolish enough to stand for anything - aside from rote obesciance to all the things Decent People stand for, of course, all those shopworn assumptions passed around in the bubble.

This posture was fresh in ’80; it even had energy. But it paralyzes the heart after a while. You end up an SOB who shows up at the end of the night to reassure that nothing matters. I think he may have invented the posture of Nerd Cool, an aspect so familiar to anyone who reads message boards - the skill at deflating enthusiasm, puncturing passion with a hatpin lobbed from a safe distance. The instinctive unease with the wet messy energy of actual people.

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